Fingering is a topic that often gets sensationalized in the context of adult content, leading to misconceptions and sometimes discomfort for women. This blog aims to shed light on the realities of fingering, addressing both the myths and proper etiquette surrounding this intimate act based on a real experience on Japanese AV
Violent fingering is the act of copying AV senselessly and easily causing complaints from women. I often hear women say that their genitals were injured because the other man imitated the intense fingering in the male AV. Of course, men may have intended to make their partners feel better, but wounds or bleeding caused by fingering can be traumatic for women.
Like squirt, the intense fingering is just a play directed to highlight the man’s hand movements. Men would want to know the easy way to orgasm. They want to get a piece of technology that will definitely excite their partner. In line with such demand, it is the intense fingering “invented” by male actors. But fingering is nothing more than fantasy. A fellow actor, known for his colorful fingering technology, has consistently voiced his opinion that “it is most important to treat women’s bodies carefully and make comfortable their partners.” Nevertheless, the reality is that powerful fingering in AVs is easily stuck in men’s minds.
Fingering are techniques, not strength
In fact, the fingering doesn’t have any force. Male actors, including myself, do not move their fingertips. Like the lever principle, gently tease your fingers with your elbow as a lever. If you use your wrist as a lever, only your arm will go in and fall out quickly. If you use your elbow as a lever, you won’t get tired and don’t have unnecessary force on women, so you won’t cause pain.
In the AV industry, two fingers are the norm, but one is enough. As you increase the number of fingers from one finger to two, three fingers, you may seem to be doing a great technique, saying, “This much goes in,” but one finger alone can sufficiently inspire a woman. For your information, some actresses ask you not to put more than one finger because of the pain. In that case, you never put two fingers in it. It’s okay if the speed of putting in and out is not fast. Don’t stir inside. It may seem bland compared to AV, but the basics of fingering are to carefully rub and examine the response of the other woman.
It’s easy to forget, but it’s basic manners to cut your nails. Women’s genitals are very sensitive, so even slightly long nails can cause wounds, and wounds can lead to disease. You should also avoid the fingernails you just cut. Make sure to trim your nails smoothly with a nail file after you cut them.
Don’t be obsessed with orgasm
Originally, only 20 to 30 percent of women feel vaginal orgasm. In fact, it’s extremely rare for women to feel virginal orgasm. Therefore, you shouldn’t try to succeed in virginal orgasm or try to make a lot of effort to succeed in the squirt. The desperate attitude to make her feel orgasm rather burdensome. All you have to do is make a woman feel satisfied that ‘sex with you is happy’.